The ʿAqīqah is a Sunnah act that is performed to thank Allah for the blessing of a child. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Every child is held in pledge for his ʿaqīqah; it is sacrificed for him on the seventh day, his head is shaved, and he is given a name.” (Abu Dāwūd, Tirmidhī). The Sunnah practice is to perform it on the seventh day if possible, though it may also be done later if it was delayed.

In your situation, the ʿAqīqah has already been properly performed according to the Sunnah. Since the sacrifice was carried out and the meat distributed to the needy, the obligation of the Sunnah has been fulfilled. There is no requirement to repeat the ʿAqīqah again, and there is also no basis in the Sunnah for performing a second ʿAqīqah for the same child after it has already been completed.

However, hosting a meal to gather family and friends and to celebrate the blessing of the child is permissible and commendable as an act of gratitude and maintaining family ties. If you wish to slaughter an animal and feed relatives and friends, this would simply be considered a voluntary sacrifice or charity and not a second ʿAqīqah. There is no requirement to shave the child’s hair again, nor is there a requirement that the meat must be distributed to the poor in the same manner as the original ʿAqīqah.

Therefore, it is permissible for you to host a gathering and feed your family and community as a means of expressing gratitude to Allah and sharing joy over your child. The key point is simply not to consider it a second ʿAqīqah, since the Sunnah of ʿAqīqah has already been fulfilled.