Goals: 

The primary goal of this workshop is to equip Muslims with essential skills and  knowledge to build a strong, fulfilling, and lasting marriage. This workshop aims  to provide participants with a solid understanding of human needs psychology,  effective communication skills, conflict resolution techniques, and key areas to  address before marriage. 

Workshop Structure: 

Intro: Marriage in Islam

Session 1: Key Areas to Address Before Marriage 

• Objective: To highlight crucial topics couples should discuss and  agree upon before marriage. 
• Content: 
• Top 6 Areas: 

1. Financial Management: Discussing financial goals, budgeting, and spending habits.

2. Family Planning and Parenting: Aligning expectations  about having children and parenting styles. 
3. Religious and Cultural Practices: Agreeing on the role  of religion and cultural traditions in the family. 
4. Roles and Responsibilities: Defining household roles and responsibilities. 

5. Career and Personal Growth: Supporting each other’s  career goals and personal development. 
6. Sexual Intimacy: Understanding each other’s needs and  boundaries regarding physical intimacy. 

• Top 3 Reasons for Divorce: 

1. Communication Breakdown: Inability to effectively communicate and resolve conflicts. 

2. Financial Issues: Disagreements over money management and financial stress. 

3. Lack of Emotional Intimacy: Growing emotional distance and unmet emotional needs. 

2. Session 2: Understanding Human Needs Psychology & Rights of  Spouses in Islam 

• Objective: To explain how understanding human needs is  foundational to feeling fulfillment in marriage. 

3. Session 3: Communication Skills Based on the Gottman Method

• Objective: To teach effective communication techniques that promote  understanding and connection. 

4. Session 4: Conflict Resolution Techniques Based on the Gottman  Method 

• Objective: To provide strategies for resolving conflicts amicably and  maintaining a positive relationship. 

Facilitation and Methodology: 

• Interactive Sessions: Encouraging active participation through discussions,  role-plays, and group activities. 
• Culturally Sensitive Approach: Ensuring the content is relevant and  respectful of Islamic values and traditions. 

Expected Outcomes: 

• Improved understanding of each partner’s needs and how to fulfill them. • Enhanced communication and conflict resolution skills. 
• Clear agreements on key areas essential for a successful marriage. • Increased confidence in building a strong and lasting partnership. 
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• Conclusion: 

Built to Last – A Premarital Workshop is designed to provide Muslims looking to  get married with the essential tools and knowledge to create a fulfilling and  enduring marriage. By focusing on human needs psychology, communication  skills, conflict resolution, and key marital topics, this workshop aims to lay a  strong foundation for a happy and successful marital life.